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Need Post-Pregnancy Workout Advice?

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Exercise After Pregnancy

Last week I wrote about exercising during your pregnancy, but what about exercising AFTER pregnancy? Are there do’s and don’ts when it comes to that?

I asked my expert moms, Shannon, Norma and Agatha, who all train with me at CrossFit LA for their opinion and to share their experiences with us. Getting back into the routine of working out had two battlefront in their opinion – the physical aspects and then the mental aspects of dealing with a child and a new lifestyle.

Making a Physical Comeback

The physical aspects of recovering from pregnancy can be different for every woman, depending on her fitness level going into and during pregnancy, and whether or not she had natural childbirth or a C-section.

Says Norma, who underwent a C-section, “I couldn’t even imagine doing sit-ups. In fact, all the magazines, books and internet articles I read said to NOT do sit-ups. You have to let your abdominal muscles get back in place before you start doing any sit-ups.”

Instead Norma started walking. She started 2 weeks after her son was born and just walked down the block and back. By 4 weeks post-delivery she was walking 2-3 miles a day. By the time her son was 2 months old she had shed all her baby weight.

Agatha gave me this warning, “You definitely cannot expect to jump back in, as my cardio ability was pretty zonked and my strength had diminished. It was pretty discouraging at first, but then you realize what an amazing thing your body did.” Agatha also suggested focusing on back exercises due to the strain of carrying a baby around.

Making a Mental Comeback

Agatha had this to say about trying to juggle her newborn’s schedule with her desire to work out: “It is very hard to come back to the gym when the baby is breastfeeding. She would want to eat at least every two hours so it was impossible to time a trip to the gym. I would get so frustrated. It took until she was at least four months old for that to ease off, so I would just go when I could, and  try to do DVDs or go for a run if I couldn’t’ go to the gym.”

Norma also believed that exercise helped her avoid more severe postpartum depression. “I went through it,” she said, “but I knew that exercise would bring me back up. Endorphins are amazing. So that was what I looked forward to the most every single day.”

Shannon expressed a similar experience, saying, “Get back into it as soon as you can! It will help your mood and give you a little energy after MANY sleepless nights!”

…and the Unexpected Benefit of a Newborn?

“My arms look good since I have to carry a 16 pound baby around!” said Agatha.

My Coaching Tips for Getting Back to Exercise After Pregnancy

  • Scale your way back in – remember your body has just been through a lot and it will take some time to get back up to the activity and strength level you had prior to pregnancy.
  • Be reasonable with yourself – the first few months can be a stressful time of motherhood. Be patient with yourself and with your schedule.
  • Just move – exercise doesn’t have to look like going to the gym to “count.” Just get out and walk, do some squats in the living room, or buy some yoga or Pilates DVD
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Top Tips for Working Out While Pregnant

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As a fitness coach, I have worked with a number of clients before, during, and after pregnancy. It is a time of excitement, but also a time that brings a lot of worry and questions. The last thing any mother wants to do is think she did something “wrong” during pregnancy or somehow harmed her unborn baby. Yet, at the same time, pregnancy and childbirth are perhaps the most strenuous things a woman’s body will ever go through. It only makes sense that being fit would make the experience a better, safer one.

I spoke with three of the mothers I have worked with at my gym, CrossFit LA.  All three moms, Shannon, Agatha, and Norma trained with us before, during and after their pregnancies to varying degrees.

Exercising While Pregnant – What SHOULD You Do?

The consensus on exercise during pregnancy comes down to two thoughts:

  1. Continue to do any activity you have already been doing prior to getting pregnant.
  2. Do what YOU feel comfortable with.

And what it comes down to is FEELING. Heart-rate monitors might give you a ballpark, but mother’s intuition is the rule all of my clients swore by. One of my clients, Shannon, told me, “If I felt good that day, I might push a little harder; if I felt bad or tired, I scaled back.”

As Norma explained to me, “For me what was most important was to treat my pregnancy as an event in my life, not an illness. Oftentimes, I found myself second-guessing myself because of what women do ‘traditionally’ while pregnant. I also found that listening to my body was key when it came to figuring out how I should do a workout.”

Women who have done intense exercise prior to becoming pregnant may experience social pressure to slow down more than they are prepared to or feel is necessary. Remember every woman’s experience and needs will be different. If you did CrossFit or ran triathlons before pregnancy, you can probably do a lot more through your pregnancy than women who were relatively sedentary.

Agatha told me about her experience, doing CrossFit until she was 30 weeks pregnant: “I found that during that time, I felt comfortable doing almost everything, just adjusted for lower weights and going slower. The hardest part for me was adjusting my mindset. I had to get used to the idea that I was probably going to finish last, that I would lift less weight, and that I had to slow down. I kept my doctor informed of my workouts and she was very supportive. The key was to listen to my body and how I was feeling.”

Doctors Just Don’t Understand

Sometimes you encounter doctors who are overly cautious about exercise and pregnancy. This could be due to their own concerns about legal repercussions, it could be they don’t understand the type of exercise being done, or they could just be conservative in their approach. Make sure when choosing your doctor that you discuss exercise and find a doctor whose views are in alignment with your goals.

Indeed, Norma switched doctors four times during her first trimester until she found a doctor who was in line with her vision. Don’t be afraid to stick up for yourself and what you want – this is YOUR pregnancy.

There is a great book I recommend to all my clients who are expecting. It goes into detail about the benefits of exercising while pregnant, both for the mother and for the unborn child – Exercising Through Your Pregnancy by James F. Clapp III, M.D. It could also be a useful tool in enrolling your doctor in your goals!

The Benefits of Exercising While Pregnant

As a coach looking at it from a “performance” aspect, I am a firm believer that being a fit pregnant mom is imperative for the hours of labor looming on the horizon. The act of giving birth is a tremendous physical event requiring strength and endurance. Don’t you want to be in great shape for this type of marathon event?

“I think staying in shape helped me so much during labor,” Agatha told me. “I had to push for two and a half hours and I was absolutely exhausted, but my doctor knew I could do it because I had been staying in such good shape. If I had to do it over again, I would have just done MORE squats – because that pushing time was ALL squats.

In addition, both Shannon and Norma expressed the time they set aside for exercise helped them stay saner, that it was valuable “me” time during their pregnancies.

My coaching tips for working out while pregnant:

  • Remember every woman’s experience of pregnancy and exercise will be unique.
  • Use your internal barometer – do what YOU feel comfortable with.
  • Peace of mind is important – don’t do anything that will have you wondering later if you shouldn’t have done it. The last thing you want is guilt if something should go wrong.
  • Pregnant or not, exercise is a great MIND cleanse as well as body cleanse.
  • Keep the bigger picture in mind – this isn’t about your performance on the workouts anymore. This is training for your health, your baby’s health, and in preparation for “event” day.
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Learning to Cook: Donna Reed vs. the Feminists

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For a number of years I was under the impression that not knowing how to cook made me more of an independent woman. I had it in my head that knowing how to cook was old-fashioned and would somehow hold me back. This was somewhat similar to how I felt about make-up. Growing up I developed a rudimentary knowledge, but now that I am older I find myself wishing I knew a little bit more about lip liner and fake eyelashes. Likewise, once I achieved adulthood, for many years I felt inadequate in the kitchen.

I believe my struggle with what it is to be a modern woman and my struggle with the kitchen run parallel to each other.

My parents encouraged me to be independent and make choices free of the fact that I was female. Indeed, in my early years I was a bit oblivious to being female. Looking back, I was probably fairly androgynous growing up. I remember being asked from time to time if I was a boy. Yet, I also remember girlfriends admiring my painted nails and long hair. Prior to my teen years, however, I was careful to avoid tremendously feminine things like skirts, make-up and cooking. And while I did eventually fall in love with skirts and make-up, I still held the strange notion that cooking would “hold me back.” There was something old-fashioned and unnecessary about cooking.

But the truth is, not knowing how to cook never got me anywhere but the frozen food aisle.

I never considered myself a feminist. In fact, I did everything I could to avoid the word. I still don’t feel comfortable having it anywhere near me. In my head, feminists are angry, man-hating, short-haired, make-up-less women. Me? I like the idea of being married, having children, growing a garden and cooking dinner. I don’t want to work full-time when I have kids and I don’t want to be made to feel bad about it. And I really, really like men.

But, that’s me now. Me a few years ago couldn’t cook dinner, remember? In fact I used to brag about my inability to cook. Back then I wasn’t so sure about the whole “having kids” thing either. If I didn’t have kids, why did I need to know how to cook? Maybe I’d marry a man who was a chef.

Things turned around for me when cooking became about fitness and health and not about politics or identity. When I became an athlete and a coach, eating healthy became something necessary and I wanted it to be something enjoyable. The only way to make it enjoyable was to properly learn how to cook. I started taking classes at a local culinary school. Lo-and-behold, cooking turned out to be completely rewarding and surprisingly creative. I never knew it was a mode of self-expression and that serving a beautiful looking and tasting meal to friends could be so fulfilling.

The discovery of the enjoyment of cooking spread into other areas of my life. My already existing love for flower gardening expanded to a love for gardening herbs and vegetables. Suddenly I could picture myself cooking meals and packing lunches. Suddenly I saw myself as a little bit more capable in the potential “mom” department. Knowing how to cook would never have held me back from anything. Not knowing how to cook contributed to my inability to see myself as a complete woman, a wife, and a mom.

Now, I truly enjoy cooking. Of course, I am still trying to figure out how to work these darn fake eyelashes, but that is perhaps another article.

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Momtastic – My Guest Posts

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Periodically I write articles as a guest blogger for a great website called Momtastic.

Momtastic is full of resources for busy moms (and dads) out there, with everything from consumer tips to recipes. I write for the Health & Beauty section – specifically in regards to fitness and families.


Here are a few of my blogs:

What to Look for When Choosing a Gym for your Child

As a fitness coach for children, even I am amazed at the breadth and variety of activities available to kids these days.

My Healthy Valentine, Date Ideas for the One You Love

Holidays like Valentine’s Day can be such a challenge.  They serve as reminders of important things in our lives, but they can also frequently present hefty temptations.

5 Easy Tips to Get Your Kids Active

One of the easiest ways to get your kids active is to use game play to disguise exercise.  Science has shown that “neurons that fire together, wire together.”

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