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Starting this week, every Friday I will be posting some of my favorite readings from that week. Some are by my favorite female voices out there on the internet, some are in regards to interesting health issues or exercise techniques, and some are just inspirational and in need of sharing.

Below you will find my favorite four links for this week and a short excerpt from each to give you an idea of the content. Please check them out!

No Damsels In Distress – CrossFit Lisbeth

“This isn’t a fairytale. I can’t manufacture hope out of nothing, like a blanket out of invisible threads, woven on some magic loom. There are no magic beans and there isn’t some long-haired prince who will ride up and save you. Even if your life is seriously f***ed, you will have to save yourself…”

New Starting Position – Sage Burgener

“So, my whole point of telling you this is because I recently learned something new that I am SO excited about! Just when I thought I knew everything there was to know about me and my weightlifting, I went up to train with Greg Everett and he taught me a new starting position that has completely changed my lifts and my life (two things that are really one in the same)…”

DID it! – Dana’s Blog, Derby City CrossFit

“I wondered a lot before showtime, before the moment came that I stepped back from the rack with 180 pounds on my back, what it would feel like. And I imagined it a lot, visualizing taking the weight and completing the squat. But as hard as I found it to imagine a weight heavier than I’ve ever lifted, I found it impossible to imagine what it would feel like to reach that goal…”

Tofu Makes You Dumn – Stumptuous.com

“A study in the JACN followed thousands of subjects following a variety of Japanese and Western-style diets in Hawaii. The study concluded that in subjects ranging from their 70s to their 90s, “poor cognitive test performance, enlargement of ventricles and low brain weight were each significantly and independently associated with higher midlife tofu consumption.” In other words, the more tofu a person consumed earlier in life, the worse their prognosis for healthy brain aging would be…”

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Are You Stumptuous? (Part 2) – Krista’s Advice for Women

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On Monday we chatted with Krista, of Stumptuous.com, about her website, her personal fitness journey and her thoughts on getting started weightlifting.

Today, the conversation is a little more philosophical — we get Krista’s viewpoint on beauty, men, and whether or not women even have a feminine side. She is, after all, a PhD in Women’s Studies, so this is kind of her thing. She also has some life tips for both the women and men out there.

Your calendars have beautiful photographs in them, but you are putting yourself out there in a way that is not “traditionally” beautiful.  Two questions about this:

One – What has been the reaction to the calendars?

People like them a lot. It kind of gives them “permission” to envision fitness in a way that isn’t so constrained by the very limited imaginations of the mass media.

Two – What was your intention in creating the calendars?

I just wanted to create something both real and beautiful. One of my favorite shots is me at the end of the fighting calendar, where I’m just lying on the mat, or at the end of the lifting calendar, where I’m just sitting. That’s a real moment — that “end of the workout” moment, where you’re feeling so accomplished and satisfied but also tired.

I wanted to capture what I was doing and thinking at a specific moment in time. Many of these shots are in my basement and my alley. That’s where I really train. That cinder block I’m holding is what I really trained with.

Do you think it’s hard for people to see women as both physically strong and beautiful? Why?

Yes, it can be, sometimes. We’ve been so overwhelmed with mass media bullshit that tells us lies — and we believe those lies, because the lies are so seductive and appealing. And “beautiful” framed in terms of the 2-dimensional images that surround us is very, very limited. (Actually, to be very honest, I sometimes can’t even watch TV because the profound emaciation and “plastic-ness” of many women on it makes my heart hurt.) Women in mass media are mostly cartoons these days — caricatures, really.

But there’s a disjuncture between real life and our imaginations now. When we imagine strong and beautiful we sometimes struggle to imagine real people, even though our lives are likely full of women who are both strong and beautiful in their own ways. If we can just trust our own experiences rather than relying on some crass commercial bullshit to create our imaginations, it’s a lot easier to envision the strong-beautiful combo, because we’re surrounded by it.

If I asked you, “Who in your life is beautiful?” you’d probably be able to generate quite a few names, not because you hang out on the set of America’s Next Top Model, but because you’re able to experience the beauty that exists in real life. You’d probably tell me that your mom or wife or best friend is strong and beautiful.

The trick is actually to change the reference point — to go back to our own very real lives and experiences to appreciate what is already there.

How do you deal with keeping up your feminine side while being an athlete?

Honestly I don’t even think about it. I yam what I yam. If I’m wearing red-painted toenails while I choke your ass out, or a dress to deadlift in (actually I often prefer training in dresses or running skirts), then that’s what it is. Or if I forget to shave my legs, I don’t really give a shit. I own both a pink fun fur bikini and combat boots. I train in a pink gi sometimes while throwing people on their asses. This is me, all of it.

I can’t even really conceptualize myself as having a “feminine” side because at least in my own life that concept is largely meaningless. I’m so much bigger than that word, really. As Walt Whitman said, “I contain multitudes.”

What is your favorite part of being a woman?

Multiple orgasms.

What is the hardest part about being a woman?

You know, I feel like everyone’s got their shit to deal with, regardless of gender or biological sex. Everyone’s life involves pain. Some of us are just luckier than others. I feel like I got super lucky in the game of life, so I have very few complaints.

I’d say the most challenging part of being female, physiologically, is the complexity of the biological system. When something goes wrong in one part, it’s often very difficult to puzzle out. When my hormones went wacky from overtraining, it was like trying to figure out what caused a weather pattern. Thyroid? Ovaries? Hypothalamus? Mercury in retrograde? Who can say?

Do you have any guilty girlie pleasures?

I rarely feel guilt about stuff like that. Guilt is for people who can’t own their shit. I am loud and proud about everything — even the dumb stuff. I just cried during an episode of Glee and don’t care who knows it.

Did you ever wish you weren’t a woman?

I do sometimes get jealous of how much more straightforward things are for men physiologically, at least in terms of body comp. They aren’t working so hard against evolution to pursue leanness, for instance. And I think it’d be fabulous to live in a much bigger male body that needed a lot more fuel — I would totally hit every buffet I could!!

On the other hand, I’m pretty happy to be a small female when it comes to fitting into airplane seats, LOL!

If you could give men one piece of advice about women, what would it be?

Shut your mouth and open your ears. Stop mansplaining things and telling us what to do, get over your egocentric need to be correct at all costs or scrabble for your place in the pecking order, shut the fuck up now and again, and actually LISTEN, learn, and observe. Learn to empathize (yes, you can learn that — it’s a skill like anything else).

Now, this advice is only for SOME men. My life is full of fantastic men who genuinely love, respect, and connect meaningfully with women.

If you could go back and give your 12 year old self one piece of advice, what would it be?

I’ll give you four:

1. It gets better.

2. Follow your own internal compass. Listen to your gut, and live by your deepest values. They will never steer you wrong.

3. Your body will never lie to you. Your brain will. If your body is telling you something, listen. That level of honesty and clear communication is a gift that you almost never get elsewhere.

4. Avoiding dealing with a problem is always WAY worse than the actual problem itself. Avoid, run away from, or cope poorly with a problem, and you end up with two problems instead of one you should have just solved in the first place.

To read more from the wonderful Krista, visit her website Stumptuous.com.

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Are You Stumptuous? (Part 1) – A Talk with Krista of Stumptuous.com

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I wanted to share with you all one of my favorite websites and resources for women in regards to health and fitness, Stumptuous.com. What better way to do it than talk with the creator of the site, Krista Scott-Dixon. She’s a sassy, smart lady (a PhD even!) who made the journey from unhealthy grad student to fitness guru. So, not only is she a great source of information, she’s a shining example of what’s possible for all of us.

This is a two part series. In part one Krista talks about her site, her personal journey and gives advice to women wanting to get started in weight lifting. In part two (on Wednesday), we get Krista’s uncensored thoughts on what it is to be a woman and be strong (her doctorate is in Women’s Studies, after all)…and even get her advice for you guys out there!

Can you define the word “Stumptuous” for us?

“Stumptuous” is a conjunction of “stumpy” and “sumptuous”, which I was originally when I started training. When I started training, I was just over 5 feet tall, and 50 lb overweight. Now, I ain’t getting any taller, but at least I’m a lot less “sumptuous”!

When did you start Stumptuous.com and what was your original concept behind it?

I started it in 1996. I was getting into training more seriously, and it was frustrating to me that there was so little quality information available to women. As the proud owner of a 1980s bodybuilding book for women, I knew that the mainstream info about women’s training was BS. I didn’t want to look like a pink-weight-lifter — I wanted to look like the fabulous women that characterized early bodybuilding.

I did my own research, taking advantage of the university libraries I had access to, and thought that other women might find it useful to know what I was discovering.

Have you stayed with that concept or has it evolved?

The concept has stayed more or less the same — a noncommercial (that part is very important), woman-positive (also important) site with evidence-based information and resources for ALL women wanting to train seriously (or at least start out).

And I wanted it to be funny and smart. So much material aimed at women is so bloody serious or trite. It’s like being female is either a really complicated, fussy undertaking or frivolously idiotic. You know what? Farting while squatting is funny. Let’s lighten the hell up and stop pretending that women are all rose-scented powder puffs. We sweat, we fall on our ass, we get dirty — let’s rock that and have some fun with it.

There’s still very little of that available, sadly. I had assumed there would be a lot more by now.

Stumptuous is a fantastic resource for fitness and health information, for both men and women.  Still, do you find your audience either predominantly male or female? Why do you think that is?

Hard to say, because I can’t really track it. But from the commentary, I’m guessing it might even be half and half. I seem to get a LOT of male readers. I think good information is good information. Good writing is good writing. Plus, men who train seriously are often great advocates for women’s training — many men are looking for information to help their girlfriends, wives, sisters, moms, friends, etc.

And many men are the ones who find my site and pass it along to the women in their lives. Perhaps the guys have been trying to convince the ladies to lift heavy, but the women resist the idea. So the guys are happy to find another woman who can bring the truth. After all, when have wives or moms ever listened to their husbands or sons? :) It’s a lot easier to convince women that they won’t turn into beasts when you can show them another very normal-looking woman.

Tell us a little bit about your personal fitness journey — where did you start and why? Where are you now?

Oh man, I feel like I’ve gone through so many stages. I started out as a sedentary grad student, 50 lb overweight and feeling like shit. I was too poor to afford a gym, so I went out every day and walked an hour around a local high school track, wearing one of the few items of clothes that fit me — a pair of sweat pants I stole from my sister’s ex boyfriend. (Is that a new low in workout wear or what?!)

At first I was into the bodybuilding mindset, so I focused a lot on “building muscle” and meals of chicken breasts and cottage cheese. I read the bodybuilding mags and followed the sport.

Then I got into powerlifting and considered competing until I realized that obsessing about three lifts sucked the fun out of everything (and left me injured). For a few years I was really into weirdo strength and conditioning stuff, along with Olympic weightlifting. Then training for grappling competition — lots of metabolic conditioning workouts, bizarre exercises that I cooked up for sport-specific application, etc. That was a lot of fun for sure, but it came with some consequences.

With grappling and strength training, the impulse was to beat myself into the ground. Grappling is one of the hardest sports you can do — when you’re competing, it’s an all-out muscular effort for several minutes. It’s like the most awful CrossFit-style workout you can imagine, combined with someone trying to choke you or break your arm. The workouts thus have to prepare you for that. And if you’re driven, like I was, it’s so easy to overdo it. So, I was cycling up to 6 hours per session during the summer months, plus doing tons of met-con-type workouts… just plowing my body into the dirt, basically.

I used to have detailed spreadsheets of mileage cycled or run, poundage lifted, total hours per week, my bodyweight and body comp, calories consumed… I mean, it was total OCD. And in lots of ways it sucked the joy out of everything. It made me into a crazy person with an exercise compulsion.

My body looked great, and I felt good — so I thought — but in fact, my body wasn’t happy, and I wasn’t happy. I wasn’t sleeping; my hormones were all screwed up; I was working on a nice little eating disorder thanks to my constant pursuit of ripped abs, all my focus on spreadsheets, and weight cutting for competition combined with a heavy training load. So, I’d go away to a training camp for a week, beat the snot out of myself, come home, and my pissed-off leptin levels would plow me face-down into a jar of nut butter in a desperate attempt to recoup some energy and recovery.

Eventually my body kicked me in the ass and said “Enough of that shit.”

At present I’m really getting into the idea of just *moving*. Now I’m really interested in the evolutionary fitness angle. Part of that is about being less hard on myself. The evidence shows very strongly that humans didn’t evolve to beat the shit out of themselves constantly. They evolved to just move — a lot — daily, but in ways that were varied, complex, and within a range of intensities. They rested a LOT. They sprinted when they needed to sprint, and hauled heavy stuff when they needed to haul heavy stuff, but the rest of the time they were just moving — walking, scrambling, rambling, just being physical.

So my new goal is simply “live actively”, “play” and “move as much as possible”. If that means blowing off a scheduled workout to go to the park with my husband and kick a soccer ball in the sunshine, so be it!! When I finish this email I’m going out into the garden.

What advice do you have for women looking to begin lifting weights?

1. A “free weight” can be as small as you need it to be. Lift anything you can manage.

2. However, don’t underestimate your capacity. Sure, you’ll start small. But think big. You CAN train for that pullup or pushups. You CAN squat and deadlift heavy. Just give yourself time.

3. There’s no rush. You have the rest of your life to get good at this stuff. Take the time to learn good form. Your body recovers on its own schedule. You can’t MAKE a plant grow; you can’t MAKE your body recover and get stronger and fitter. All you can do is provide the conditions for growth and recovery to occur.

4. Be real. Real life means carrying bags of groceries or a squirming kid up stairs. It means running for the bus. It means climbing and throwing and hauling while in awkward positions or moving. Train for THAT — not some imaginary universe where you’re balancing on a ball. (Unless you’re a circus performer — in which case that might be part
of your repertoire.)

5. Keep it simple. Push, pull, squat. Move through space. Then make that movement harder. The end.

Click HERE for part two of our talk with Krista!

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