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Are You Stumptuous? (Part 2) – Krista’s Advice for Women

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On Monday we chatted with Krista, of Stumptuous.com, about her website, her personal fitness journey and her thoughts on getting started weightlifting.

Today, the conversation is a little more philosophical — we get Krista’s viewpoint on beauty, men, and whether or not women even have a feminine side. She is, after all, a PhD in Women’s Studies, so this is kind of her thing. She also has some life tips for both the women and men out there.

Your calendars have beautiful photographs in them, but you are putting yourself out there in a way that is not “traditionally” beautiful.  Two questions about this:

One – What has been the reaction to the calendars?

People like them a lot. It kind of gives them “permission” to envision fitness in a way that isn’t so constrained by the very limited imaginations of the mass media.

Two – What was your intention in creating the calendars?

I just wanted to create something both real and beautiful. One of my favorite shots is me at the end of the fighting calendar, where I’m just lying on the mat, or at the end of the lifting calendar, where I’m just sitting. That’s a real moment — that “end of the workout” moment, where you’re feeling so accomplished and satisfied but also tired.

I wanted to capture what I was doing and thinking at a specific moment in time. Many of these shots are in my basement and my alley. That’s where I really train. That cinder block I’m holding is what I really trained with.

Do you think it’s hard for people to see women as both physically strong and beautiful? Why?

Yes, it can be, sometimes. We’ve been so overwhelmed with mass media bullshit that tells us lies — and we believe those lies, because the lies are so seductive and appealing. And “beautiful” framed in terms of the 2-dimensional images that surround us is very, very limited. (Actually, to be very honest, I sometimes can’t even watch TV because the profound emaciation and “plastic-ness” of many women on it makes my heart hurt.) Women in mass media are mostly cartoons these days — caricatures, really.

But there’s a disjuncture between real life and our imaginations now. When we imagine strong and beautiful we sometimes struggle to imagine real people, even though our lives are likely full of women who are both strong and beautiful in their own ways. If we can just trust our own experiences rather than relying on some crass commercial bullshit to create our imaginations, it’s a lot easier to envision the strong-beautiful combo, because we’re surrounded by it.

If I asked you, “Who in your life is beautiful?” you’d probably be able to generate quite a few names, not because you hang out on the set of America’s Next Top Model, but because you’re able to experience the beauty that exists in real life. You’d probably tell me that your mom or wife or best friend is strong and beautiful.

The trick is actually to change the reference point — to go back to our own very real lives and experiences to appreciate what is already there.

How do you deal with keeping up your feminine side while being an athlete?

Honestly I don’t even think about it. I yam what I yam. If I’m wearing red-painted toenails while I choke your ass out, or a dress to deadlift in (actually I often prefer training in dresses or running skirts), then that’s what it is. Or if I forget to shave my legs, I don’t really give a shit. I own both a pink fun fur bikini and combat boots. I train in a pink gi sometimes while throwing people on their asses. This is me, all of it.

I can’t even really conceptualize myself as having a “feminine” side because at least in my own life that concept is largely meaningless. I’m so much bigger than that word, really. As Walt Whitman said, “I contain multitudes.”

What is your favorite part of being a woman?

Multiple orgasms.

What is the hardest part about being a woman?

You know, I feel like everyone’s got their shit to deal with, regardless of gender or biological sex. Everyone’s life involves pain. Some of us are just luckier than others. I feel like I got super lucky in the game of life, so I have very few complaints.

I’d say the most challenging part of being female, physiologically, is the complexity of the biological system. When something goes wrong in one part, it’s often very difficult to puzzle out. When my hormones went wacky from overtraining, it was like trying to figure out what caused a weather pattern. Thyroid? Ovaries? Hypothalamus? Mercury in retrograde? Who can say?

Do you have any guilty girlie pleasures?

I rarely feel guilt about stuff like that. Guilt is for people who can’t own their shit. I am loud and proud about everything — even the dumb stuff. I just cried during an episode of Glee and don’t care who knows it.

Did you ever wish you weren’t a woman?

I do sometimes get jealous of how much more straightforward things are for men physiologically, at least in terms of body comp. They aren’t working so hard against evolution to pursue leanness, for instance. And I think it’d be fabulous to live in a much bigger male body that needed a lot more fuel — I would totally hit every buffet I could!!

On the other hand, I’m pretty happy to be a small female when it comes to fitting into airplane seats, LOL!

If you could give men one piece of advice about women, what would it be?

Shut your mouth and open your ears. Stop mansplaining things and telling us what to do, get over your egocentric need to be correct at all costs or scrabble for your place in the pecking order, shut the fuck up now and again, and actually LISTEN, learn, and observe. Learn to empathize (yes, you can learn that — it’s a skill like anything else).

Now, this advice is only for SOME men. My life is full of fantastic men who genuinely love, respect, and connect meaningfully with women.

If you could go back and give your 12 year old self one piece of advice, what would it be?

I’ll give you four:

1. It gets better.

2. Follow your own internal compass. Listen to your gut, and live by your deepest values. They will never steer you wrong.

3. Your body will never lie to you. Your brain will. If your body is telling you something, listen. That level of honesty and clear communication is a gift that you almost never get elsewhere.

4. Avoiding dealing with a problem is always WAY worse than the actual problem itself. Avoid, run away from, or cope poorly with a problem, and you end up with two problems instead of one you should have just solved in the first place.

To read more from the wonderful Krista, visit her website Stumptuous.com.

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Are You Stumptuous? (Part 1) – A Talk with Krista of Stumptuous.com

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I wanted to share with you all one of my favorite websites and resources for women in regards to health and fitness, Stumptuous.com. What better way to do it than talk with the creator of the site, Krista Scott-Dixon. She’s a sassy, smart lady (a PhD even!) who made the journey from unhealthy grad student to fitness guru. So, not only is she a great source of information, she’s a shining example of what’s possible for all of us.

This is a two part series. In part one Krista talks about her site, her personal journey and gives advice to women wanting to get started in weight lifting. In part two (on Wednesday), we get Krista’s uncensored thoughts on what it is to be a woman and be strong (her doctorate is in Women’s Studies, after all)…and even get her advice for you guys out there!

Can you define the word “Stumptuous” for us?

“Stumptuous” is a conjunction of “stumpy” and “sumptuous”, which I was originally when I started training. When I started training, I was just over 5 feet tall, and 50 lb overweight. Now, I ain’t getting any taller, but at least I’m a lot less “sumptuous”!

When did you start Stumptuous.com and what was your original concept behind it?

I started it in 1996. I was getting into training more seriously, and it was frustrating to me that there was so little quality information available to women. As the proud owner of a 1980s bodybuilding book for women, I knew that the mainstream info about women’s training was BS. I didn’t want to look like a pink-weight-lifter — I wanted to look like the fabulous women that characterized early bodybuilding.

I did my own research, taking advantage of the university libraries I had access to, and thought that other women might find it useful to know what I was discovering.

Have you stayed with that concept or has it evolved?

The concept has stayed more or less the same — a noncommercial (that part is very important), woman-positive (also important) site with evidence-based information and resources for ALL women wanting to train seriously (or at least start out).

And I wanted it to be funny and smart. So much material aimed at women is so bloody serious or trite. It’s like being female is either a really complicated, fussy undertaking or frivolously idiotic. You know what? Farting while squatting is funny. Let’s lighten the hell up and stop pretending that women are all rose-scented powder puffs. We sweat, we fall on our ass, we get dirty — let’s rock that and have some fun with it.

There’s still very little of that available, sadly. I had assumed there would be a lot more by now.

Stumptuous is a fantastic resource for fitness and health information, for both men and women.  Still, do you find your audience either predominantly male or female? Why do you think that is?

Hard to say, because I can’t really track it. But from the commentary, I’m guessing it might even be half and half. I seem to get a LOT of male readers. I think good information is good information. Good writing is good writing. Plus, men who train seriously are often great advocates for women’s training — many men are looking for information to help their girlfriends, wives, sisters, moms, friends, etc.

And many men are the ones who find my site and pass it along to the women in their lives. Perhaps the guys have been trying to convince the ladies to lift heavy, but the women resist the idea. So the guys are happy to find another woman who can bring the truth. After all, when have wives or moms ever listened to their husbands or sons? :) It’s a lot easier to convince women that they won’t turn into beasts when you can show them another very normal-looking woman.

Tell us a little bit about your personal fitness journey — where did you start and why? Where are you now?

Oh man, I feel like I’ve gone through so many stages. I started out as a sedentary grad student, 50 lb overweight and feeling like shit. I was too poor to afford a gym, so I went out every day and walked an hour around a local high school track, wearing one of the few items of clothes that fit me — a pair of sweat pants I stole from my sister’s ex boyfriend. (Is that a new low in workout wear or what?!)

At first I was into the bodybuilding mindset, so I focused a lot on “building muscle” and meals of chicken breasts and cottage cheese. I read the bodybuilding mags and followed the sport.

Then I got into powerlifting and considered competing until I realized that obsessing about three lifts sucked the fun out of everything (and left me injured). For a few years I was really into weirdo strength and conditioning stuff, along with Olympic weightlifting. Then training for grappling competition — lots of metabolic conditioning workouts, bizarre exercises that I cooked up for sport-specific application, etc. That was a lot of fun for sure, but it came with some consequences.

With grappling and strength training, the impulse was to beat myself into the ground. Grappling is one of the hardest sports you can do — when you’re competing, it’s an all-out muscular effort for several minutes. It’s like the most awful CrossFit-style workout you can imagine, combined with someone trying to choke you or break your arm. The workouts thus have to prepare you for that. And if you’re driven, like I was, it’s so easy to overdo it. So, I was cycling up to 6 hours per session during the summer months, plus doing tons of met-con-type workouts… just plowing my body into the dirt, basically.

I used to have detailed spreadsheets of mileage cycled or run, poundage lifted, total hours per week, my bodyweight and body comp, calories consumed… I mean, it was total OCD. And in lots of ways it sucked the joy out of everything. It made me into a crazy person with an exercise compulsion.

My body looked great, and I felt good — so I thought — but in fact, my body wasn’t happy, and I wasn’t happy. I wasn’t sleeping; my hormones were all screwed up; I was working on a nice little eating disorder thanks to my constant pursuit of ripped abs, all my focus on spreadsheets, and weight cutting for competition combined with a heavy training load. So, I’d go away to a training camp for a week, beat the snot out of myself, come home, and my pissed-off leptin levels would plow me face-down into a jar of nut butter in a desperate attempt to recoup some energy and recovery.

Eventually my body kicked me in the ass and said “Enough of that shit.”

At present I’m really getting into the idea of just *moving*. Now I’m really interested in the evolutionary fitness angle. Part of that is about being less hard on myself. The evidence shows very strongly that humans didn’t evolve to beat the shit out of themselves constantly. They evolved to just move — a lot — daily, but in ways that were varied, complex, and within a range of intensities. They rested a LOT. They sprinted when they needed to sprint, and hauled heavy stuff when they needed to haul heavy stuff, but the rest of the time they were just moving — walking, scrambling, rambling, just being physical.

So my new goal is simply “live actively”, “play” and “move as much as possible”. If that means blowing off a scheduled workout to go to the park with my husband and kick a soccer ball in the sunshine, so be it!! When I finish this email I’m going out into the garden.

What advice do you have for women looking to begin lifting weights?

1. A “free weight” can be as small as you need it to be. Lift anything you can manage.

2. However, don’t underestimate your capacity. Sure, you’ll start small. But think big. You CAN train for that pullup or pushups. You CAN squat and deadlift heavy. Just give yourself time.

3. There’s no rush. You have the rest of your life to get good at this stuff. Take the time to learn good form. Your body recovers on its own schedule. You can’t MAKE a plant grow; you can’t MAKE your body recover and get stronger and fitter. All you can do is provide the conditions for growth and recovery to occur.

4. Be real. Real life means carrying bags of groceries or a squirming kid up stairs. It means running for the bus. It means climbing and throwing and hauling while in awkward positions or moving. Train for THAT — not some imaginary universe where you’re balancing on a ball. (Unless you’re a circus performer — in which case that might be part
of your repertoire.)

5. Keep it simple. Push, pull, squat. Move through space. Then make that movement harder. The end.

Click HERE for part two of our talk with Krista!

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Athena Profile – Sage Burgener, Olympic Weightlifter & CrossFitter

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Introducing the first in a special series of articles that I am calling “Athena Profiles.” These are profiles of female athletes who are setting an example of what it is to be smart, sexy and strong. The women featured will come from all different sports, amateur and professional, and be of all different ages and backgrounds. What ties them together is their ability to inspire others, just by  being who they are. Each one will be asked the same questions and we will get a little inkling into what makes them so amazing and successful.

First up — Sage Burgener. Sage has a passion for Olympic-style weightlifting that began in her garage at the age of four and led her to earn the title of Junior National Champion in her teens.  After twelve years of competing in the sport, Sage is taking some time off and is spending it doing CrossFit, spreading good Olympic lifting techniques to CrossFitters all over the world. And she does it all while remaining sassy!

Do you think it’s hard for people to see women as both physically strong and beautiful? Why?

Definitely! For most, being strong means being manly and no woman wants to be deemed as something far from feminine.  Unfortunately, there are many who believe that males are supposed to be the strong figures in a relationship, and females are supposed to be the dainty ones. If that was the case, I’d be single for the rest of my life!

However, although that stereotype has been around forever, I think times are changing.  As the world of fitness slowly starts to get more and more popular, I see males and females starting to recognize and appreciate that physical strength can play a huge part in emotional strength… and there’s nothing more attractive than confidence. With time, I believe that beautifully strong women will get the admiration they deserve.

What about being seen as beautiful and smart? Do you think women sometimes think they can’t be both?

Fortunately, I think the age of “ditzy=cute” is over.  I believe that a lot of women pride themselves on their social skills. Being able to connect with a person is an art and makes women likable. I’m happy to state that most females know that intelligence is a huge factor when it comes to beauty.

Have you ever felt judged for being too pretty or too athletic, by either men or women?

Throughout my life, the only times I ever felt judged for being an athlete was when people associated lifting weights and playing sports with beating people up.  It never made sense to me, but for whatever reason I would get the occasional “Don’t make Sage angry. She lifts weights and she will MESS YOU UP”. Lifting weights does increase your testosterone, but it does not increase your desire to punch someone in the face.

How do you deal with keeping up your feminine side while being an athlete?

Part of being feminine is being extremely in touch with your emotions. I find myself to be a master in the emotional department. Give me a sappy birthday card or a cute baby commercial and I won’t hesitate to cry. Also, I love obnoxiously bright nail polish and occasionally wearing too much make-up to make up for all the times I go without it.

What is your favorite part of being a woman?

One of my most favorite things about being a woman is being able to use my period as an excuse to be over-the-top moody and eat as much dark chocolate as I want.

What is the hardest part about being a woman?

The hardest part about being a woman is the inability to lose fat in 5 minutes like 95% of the male population. Also, shaving my legs is extremely inconvenient at times.

In all seriousness, I think the hardest part about being a woman is the fact that we are all extremely hard on ourselves.  When we look around at other women, we see so much beauty. But when it comes to looking at ourselves, we are quick to point out every little thing we’d like to change. If we all made an effort to look in the mirror each day and say three things we love about our flawed selves, being a woman would be so much easier.

Do you have any guilty girlie pleasures?

Two things: ice cream and Target.

Did you ever wish you weren’t a woman?

No way! Being a woman is a beautiful thing and should be embraced in every way.

Has being female ever held you back in any way? (career, sports, etc)

Although I believe it to be on a subconscious level, I do think that men have a hard time listening to a young female coach them in the sport of Olympic weightlifting. While I try to be as understanding as possible when it comes to males’ egos, their uncertainties about my knowledge have limited me when trying to connect with them as athletes.

How has being female been an advantage? (career, sports, etc)

When it comes to coaching females in olympic weightlifting, being a female is a huge advantage.  Women can read each other.  We know when bad training days are brought on by something more than physical problems or fatigue.  That ability to connect with women on an emotional basis has made me a better coach.

If you could go back and give your 12 year old self one piece of advice, what would it be?

If I could go back to my 12 year old self, I would tell her to love herself unconditionally, as she does other people.  It took me a long time to love myself, and although my struggles made me a better friend and person, I could have avoided a lot of emotional damage.  I would also tell her that being kind to yourself and putting yourself before others is not necessarily being selfish if it means, as a result, you are happier. If you are happy, you create so many opportunities to be a better person.

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I Don’t Want to Get Bulky

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I never attempted to work out until I was in graduate school. I made it a personal project to work out every weekday and create a habit, but by default I did only cardio. It was a lot less intimidating. I would walk by the weight room, but I had no idea how to use the machines, what the movements were, or what the etiquette was. As a result, I never went in and never learned to lift weights.

Now, years later, I teach people to lift weights. One of the gifts of my job is being able to open up the world of weight lifting to them. To demystify it and make it fun. It’s not the guys doings curls in the gym. It’s not trying to get in and out of those contraptions of machinery. It’s something really rewarding.

When new female clients come into the gym, they frequently share a common concern. “Will it make me bulky?” Here’s the short and simple answer – no. No, you won’t get bulky.  The truth is, it’s really hard to get bulky. There are people who put a lot of time and effort into building muscle and it takes work. It won’t happen accidentally. I promise you.

You don’t have the hormones. Women just don’t naturally have enough testosterone to become muscular like a man. The women you see out there who do appear excessively muscular are most likely taking steroids, coupled with supplements and specific nutrition, and a lot of long hard hours in the gym.  Again, this will not happen to you by accident.

This isn’t to say some of you aren’t more genetically predisposed to developing muscle than other women. I acknowledge these women exist and I fall into that group myself. Just like some women are naturally tall and slender and some women are voluptuous – some women are naturally athletic in build. This is a healthy and good thing. There are people out there who wish they were you. Successful athletes are like you. Don’t wish it away.

Don’t feed it, if you don’t want it. One thing that can happen when you start a new workout regimen is that you stimulate your appetite. What can be perceived as mass gain may just be weight gain. It takes the building blocks we get from food to add either fat or muscle to our bodies. If we don’t provide the calories, we won’t put on either. Don’t starve yourself! Eat healthy, but remember that your hunger pangs may just be your body adjusting to a new workout regimen.

Lifting heavy is good for you. On the positive side, weight lifting is great for maintaining bone. This is something vital for all women as we age. Strong muscles means strong bones and the earlier you start resistance training the more benefit you will receive.

Muscle also creates shape! That word “toned” that trainers use all the time? What they are talking about is creating shape for your body, creating a pleasing silhouette. Think about what fat feels like and the consistency of it. Think about what the consistency of muscle feels like. Wouldn’t your body make and maintain a better shape if it were made out of muscle?

The best advice I can give you is to find a good trainer or a reputable gym to train at that teaches weight lifting classes. I personally learned about weight lifting through CrossFit LA and the CrossFit community at large, but there are other avenues out there. Find an expert and learn everything you can from them. You will look and feel better…and you might be surprised how much fun it is to be strong.

Last summer I bought myself a new television – a BIG television. The salesman asked me if I wanted help out of the store and I proudly said, “nope!”  I picked it up and carried it out myself, much to his surprise.  That’s a good feeling – and that’s from weight lifting.

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