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From the Mouths of Men: Josh Barnett, MMA Fighter & Pro-Wrestler

An accomplished mixed martial arts (MMA) fighter, Josh Barnett has been a champion in both the United States and Japan. Josh is also well known in Japanese professional wrestling and on a More »

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Athena Profile – Roxy Richardson, Professional Fighter & Personal Trainer

I first met Roxy a number of years ago when I started training Muay Thai. She was a senior student, already had a few fights under her belt, and generally beat the More »

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Who Fits In These Jeans?

For a number of years I only wore skirts. I had mini-skirts, long skirts, all sorts of skirts. My friends would occasionally comment that they never saw me in jeans. I did More »

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Are You Stumptuous? (Part 1) – A Talk with Krista of Stumptuous.com

I wanted to share with you all one of my favorite websites and resources for women in regards to health and fitness, Stumptuous.com. What better way to do it than talk with More »

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My Arms vs. Your Manhood

Recently I did something I’ve done only once before. I signed up for an online dating service. Last time it didn’t result in much, but this time I’m trying a different site More »

Friday Link Love

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It’s time for Friday Link Love again! What is “link love”? It’s when you share some of your favorite reading, favorite blogs, or inspirational posts.

So here are some thought provokers for this week: Non-Conformity, the Definition of Strength, Getting Rid of Negativity, and…Meat Glue.

I have posted excerpts from each blog so you can see a sneak preview . Click on the blog title to read more!

ChrisGuillebeau.com / The Art of Non-Conformity

This isn’t a link to a specific article, but rather an entire blog, “The Art of Non-Conformity.” I am linking to this because starting today I am attending a multi-day event put on by AONC creator, Chris Guillebeau. The event is called the World Domination Summit and is taking place in my favorite city, Portland, OR. If you are looking for tips on entrepreneurship, location free living, travel hacking, or just generally living “off the grid” – check out this website.

What Is Strong? – ZentoFitness.com

“Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” – Unknown

“For those expecting to see a post about strength levels in the gym this article may leave you disappointed. Instead this post is about strength in all walks of life – We sometimes forget that strength encompasses the mind and body and where the mind leads to body will follow.”

7 Simple Tips to Deal with Negative People – ZenHabits.com

“Have you ever dealt with negative people before? If you have, you will know that the experience can be quite a downer.

I used to have an ex-colleague who was very negative. In our conversations, she would complain endlessly about her co-workers, her work and her life. She was also very cynical about people in general, often doubting their intentions. Talking to her wasn’t a pleasant experience at all.

After a while, I figured I needed to work out an action plan to deal with negative people. After all, she was not going to be the only negative person I was going to encounter in my life.”

Meat Glue: Separating Fact From Fiction – MarksDailyApple.com

“If you’re a fitness and nutrition nerd, you’re long past the grade school days of willingly eating glue, paste, and other pseudo-edible adhesives, but there’s a decent chance you’re still eating an entirely different kind of glue unknowingly. Maybe even on a regular basis. I’m talking about meat glue, also known as transglutaminase, which restaurants and food producers use to create “steaks” out of “glued-together” stew meat, add body to dairy products, make imitation crab, improve processed meat mouth feel, to name a few.

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Top Tips for Working Out While Pregnant

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As a fitness coach, I have worked with a number of clients before, during, and after pregnancy. It is a time of excitement, but also a time that brings a lot of worry and questions. The last thing any mother wants to do is think she did something “wrong” during pregnancy or somehow harmed her unborn baby. Yet, at the same time, pregnancy and childbirth are perhaps the most strenuous things a woman’s body will ever go through. It only makes sense that being fit would make the experience a better, safer one.

I spoke with three of the mothers I have worked with at my gym, CrossFit LA.  All three moms, Shannon, Agatha, and Norma trained with us before, during and after their pregnancies to varying degrees.

Exercising While Pregnant – What SHOULD You Do?

The consensus on exercise during pregnancy comes down to two thoughts:

  1. Continue to do any activity you have already been doing prior to getting pregnant.
  2. Do what YOU feel comfortable with.

And what it comes down to is FEELING. Heart-rate monitors might give you a ballpark, but mother’s intuition is the rule all of my clients swore by. One of my clients, Shannon, told me, “If I felt good that day, I might push a little harder; if I felt bad or tired, I scaled back.”

As Norma explained to me, “For me what was most important was to treat my pregnancy as an event in my life, not an illness. Oftentimes, I found myself second-guessing myself because of what women do ‘traditionally’ while pregnant. I also found that listening to my body was key when it came to figuring out how I should do a workout.”

Women who have done intense exercise prior to becoming pregnant may experience social pressure to slow down more than they are prepared to or feel is necessary. Remember every woman’s experience and needs will be different. If you did CrossFit or ran triathlons before pregnancy, you can probably do a lot more through your pregnancy than women who were relatively sedentary.

Agatha told me about her experience, doing CrossFit until she was 30 weeks pregnant: “I found that during that time, I felt comfortable doing almost everything, just adjusted for lower weights and going slower. The hardest part for me was adjusting my mindset. I had to get used to the idea that I was probably going to finish last, that I would lift less weight, and that I had to slow down. I kept my doctor informed of my workouts and she was very supportive. The key was to listen to my body and how I was feeling.”

Doctors Just Don’t Understand

Sometimes you encounter doctors who are overly cautious about exercise and pregnancy. This could be due to their own concerns about legal repercussions, it could be they don’t understand the type of exercise being done, or they could just be conservative in their approach. Make sure when choosing your doctor that you discuss exercise and find a doctor whose views are in alignment with your goals.

Indeed, Norma switched doctors four times during her first trimester until she found a doctor who was in line with her vision. Don’t be afraid to stick up for yourself and what you want – this is YOUR pregnancy.

There is a great book I recommend to all my clients who are expecting. It goes into detail about the benefits of exercising while pregnant, both for the mother and for the unborn child – Exercising Through Your Pregnancy by James F. Clapp III, M.D. It could also be a useful tool in enrolling your doctor in your goals!

The Benefits of Exercising While Pregnant

As a coach looking at it from a “performance” aspect, I am a firm believer that being a fit pregnant mom is imperative for the hours of labor looming on the horizon. The act of giving birth is a tremendous physical event requiring strength and endurance. Don’t you want to be in great shape for this type of marathon event?

“I think staying in shape helped me so much during labor,” Agatha told me. “I had to push for two and a half hours and I was absolutely exhausted, but my doctor knew I could do it because I had been staying in such good shape. If I had to do it over again, I would have just done MORE squats – because that pushing time was ALL squats.

In addition, both Shannon and Norma expressed the time they set aside for exercise helped them stay saner, that it was valuable “me” time during their pregnancies.

My coaching tips for working out while pregnant:

  • Remember every woman’s experience of pregnancy and exercise will be unique.
  • Use your internal barometer – do what YOU feel comfortable with.
  • Peace of mind is important – don’t do anything that will have you wondering later if you shouldn’t have done it. The last thing you want is guilt if something should go wrong.
  • Pregnant or not, exercise is a great MIND cleanse as well as body cleanse.
  • Keep the bigger picture in mind – this isn’t about your performance on the workouts anymore. This is training for your health, your baby’s health, and in preparation for “event” day.
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Athena Profile – Jenny Fletcher, Professional Triathlete & Model

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An athlete from an early age, Jenny Fletcher was discovered by an international modeling agency at the age of 15. This was also the year she discovered the pentathlon — a sport that includes pistol shooting, swimming, fencing, running and horse jumping . At the age of 16, she competed at the Junior and Senior Worlds. After a long successful modeling career, in 2010 Jenny chose to take her hobby of competing in triathlons to the professional level. She has aspirations to someday represent her home country of Canada in the Olympics.

Do you think it’s hard for people to see women as both physically strong and beautiful? Why?

Not as much anymore as there has been a shift in the way women have been viewed. I find there is a lot of support and encouragement and always find people are so inspired by seeing a woman both physically strong and beautiful.

What about being seen as beautiful and smart? Do you think women sometimes think they can’t be both?

Once again I feel the trends have changed. Women are highly esteemed when they are beautiful and smart. There is a lot of respect out there, but yes it’s a tough world, so with respect comes criticism. You can’t let that stop you from being your best. We are born to grow, change, learn, and strive! We can be both beautiful and smart. It’s up to us what we will do with what we have been given. There are no limits when you exude confidence and have a sense of self worth. People may be caught off guard at first, but in the end there is a tone of respect.

Have you ever felt judged for being too pretty or too athletic, by either men or women?

All the time. Who isn’t judged, though, in this world nowadays? People are always looking for a way to fault you. And most likely they will find faults, but as long as we are being true to ourselves you have to learn to let it not affect you. I’ve been in the fashion modeling world for 20 years — we are pulled apart everyday. It hasn’t changed switching over to being an athlete, but it’s not going to stop me. We must realize we can’t make everyone happy. So live life to the fullest and those that want to be a part of your life will and those that don’t will eventually fade away.

How do you deal with keeping up your feminine side while being an athlete?

I think from years of modeling it’s innate. It’s a part of me, even more so now as I am aware of my body becoming stronger and therefore losing some of it’s softness or curves. It’s all in the way I dress. I can downplay my athletic body by wearing clothes that show my femininity, but still show I am a strong woman. I wear earrings all the time now and feel a bit lost without mascara. My apparel sponsor, Oakley, has great lifestyle apparel that totally suits me being an athlete, but is still fashionable, and they have very feminine sunglasses etc. And my race-kit I designed by Hincapie Sports is all feminine with it’s corset looking appearance!

Lastly, I love to eat! Got to keep a bit of my curves! :)

What is your favorite part of being a woman?

The power you have! A strong confident women is inspiring. When I see a women that is confident and strong I am immediately impressed and drawn to wanting to be more like them. Beauty is from within and if you have it within it radiates without!

What is the hardest part about being a woman?

I love being a woman so I can’t say. It could be emotions, but without them we wouldn’t  be women.

Do you have any guilty girlie pleasures?

I love getting manicures and pedicures, having my hair blown out, and feeling all sexy wearing heels and dressing up in feminine sexy clothes. I have a thing for shopping, though I don’t do that as often as when I was solely modeling. Once a fashionista always a fashionista. I love being a girl.

Did you ever wish you weren’t a woman?

Nope.

Has being female ever held you back in any way? (career, sports, etc)

Nope.

How has being female been an advantage? (career, sports, etc)

Here’s what I think: If you are strong and confident and believe in yourself nothing will stop you. If one door closes another opens. There is a world of opportunity — we just have to be looking for it and most importantly take the risk and step outside the comfort zone. The worst that can happen is rejection and failure, but that doesn’t set me back only makes me try harder.

If you could go back and give your 12 year old self one piece of advice, what would it be?

Well…. Advice? Just believe in yourself and dream big…. But that’s already what I did.

For more about Jenny Fletcher, visit her website www.jennyfletcher.com.

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Friday Link Love

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It’s time for Friday Link Love again! What is “link love”? It’s when you share some of your favorite reading, favorite blogs, or inspirational posts.

This week you can learn which style of yoga is best for you, read about the cost of success, and be inspired by one woman’s journey battling an eating disorder or another woman’s loss of a pregnancy and her marriage, and how this turned out to open new doors for her.

I have posted excerpts from each blog so you can see a sneak preview . Click on the blog title to read more!

The Death of the Dream Could Be the Birth of Unprecented Possibility – Pathofpossibility.com

“What I have found to be true in every case––in my personal life and my writing life––is that the death of the dream creates the space for what is actually intended to come through: what is, in the end, a better fit than we ever could have imagined. And often, it is so wildly off the mark from what we imagined, that it can take a long time to settle in with the strange bedfellows––or writingfellows––reality presents us with…”

The Cost of Success – CrossFitLA.com

You’ve felt it before. You’ve finally decided to tackle something that’s been on your mind for a while. You’ve even created a vision of what it’s going to look like when you’re all done and your excited! Then it happens — it comes time to start and there’s something stopping you. You think about it and you’re “confused,” you’re frustrated before you start, what looked so bright and shiny just a day ago feels like a weight you are now carrying around. You start telling yourself it’s “impossible” even before you try…”

How to Find the Right Style of Yoga for You – Lifehacker.com

“Yoga offers a host of health benefits, including stress relief and mental clarity, but many people don’t think it’s for them. There are, however, so many approaches to yoga—Ashtanga is a fast-paced flowing style while Kripalu combines gentle movements with a philosophy of compassion and mindfulness—that if you are interested, you should be able to find a yoga style that fits your needs and reap these great benefits. Here’s how to get started (or continue) on your individual yoga path.”

From Thin to Fit – An Anorexic’s Story – Games.CrossFit.com

Focusing her competitive drive on CrossFit has helped Emma break free from her eating disorder. To keep from getting her ass kicked at every workout, Emma has started thinking, eating, and exercising differently. When she ate well, she did better. If she returned to poor eating, she’d fall behind. CrossFit challenged her to change, gave her a new focus, and offered her a tangible way to track how she was doing on the road to health and fitness.”

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Learning to Cook: Donna Reed vs. the Feminists

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For a number of years I was under the impression that not knowing how to cook made me more of an independent woman. I had it in my head that knowing how to cook was old-fashioned and would somehow hold me back. This was somewhat similar to how I felt about make-up. Growing up I developed a rudimentary knowledge, but now that I am older I find myself wishing I knew a little bit more about lip liner and fake eyelashes. Likewise, once I achieved adulthood, for many years I felt inadequate in the kitchen.

I believe my struggle with what it is to be a modern woman and my struggle with the kitchen run parallel to each other.

My parents encouraged me to be independent and make choices free of the fact that I was female. Indeed, in my early years I was a bit oblivious to being female. Looking back, I was probably fairly androgynous growing up. I remember being asked from time to time if I was a boy. Yet, I also remember girlfriends admiring my painted nails and long hair. Prior to my teen years, however, I was careful to avoid tremendously feminine things like skirts, make-up and cooking. And while I did eventually fall in love with skirts and make-up, I still held the strange notion that cooking would “hold me back.” There was something old-fashioned and unnecessary about cooking.

But the truth is, not knowing how to cook never got me anywhere but the frozen food aisle.

I never considered myself a feminist. In fact, I did everything I could to avoid the word. I still don’t feel comfortable having it anywhere near me. In my head, feminists are angry, man-hating, short-haired, make-up-less women. Me? I like the idea of being married, having children, growing a garden and cooking dinner. I don’t want to work full-time when I have kids and I don’t want to be made to feel bad about it. And I really, really like men.

But, that’s me now. Me a few years ago couldn’t cook dinner, remember? In fact I used to brag about my inability to cook. Back then I wasn’t so sure about the whole “having kids” thing either. If I didn’t have kids, why did I need to know how to cook? Maybe I’d marry a man who was a chef.

Things turned around for me when cooking became about fitness and health and not about politics or identity. When I became an athlete and a coach, eating healthy became something necessary and I wanted it to be something enjoyable. The only way to make it enjoyable was to properly learn how to cook. I started taking classes at a local culinary school. Lo-and-behold, cooking turned out to be completely rewarding and surprisingly creative. I never knew it was a mode of self-expression and that serving a beautiful looking and tasting meal to friends could be so fulfilling.

The discovery of the enjoyment of cooking spread into other areas of my life. My already existing love for flower gardening expanded to a love for gardening herbs and vegetables. Suddenly I could picture myself cooking meals and packing lunches. Suddenly I saw myself as a little bit more capable in the potential “mom” department. Knowing how to cook would never have held me back from anything. Not knowing how to cook contributed to my inability to see myself as a complete woman, a wife, and a mom.

Now, I truly enjoy cooking. Of course, I am still trying to figure out how to work these darn fake eyelashes, but that is perhaps another article.

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